- White space (visual arts), portions of a page left unmarked
- Space (punctuation), the space between two words of text
- Whitespace character, a computer character for the space between words
- whitespace characters, a character class in regular expressions
- White spaces (radio), allocated but locally unused radio frequencies
- White space (management), an area where no one is responsible
- Whitespace (programming language), an esoteric programming language"
I have been thinking about White Space lately, but not the kind mentioned above.
I've been thinking of the kind of White Space that is more like White Noise--that background static that either drives you crazy or that is so common you don't notice it anymore...or maybe you love White Noise because it drowns out some other sounds you would rather not hear.
The White Space I am writing about relates to T-I-M-E.
That four letter word we never seem to have enough of...or do we?
One of the things I have noticed in the last few weeks (after keeping record of the blessings God pours down on me, unrestrained each day), is that there is actually a surprisingly large number of time-pockets, where things are calm and quiet. I know... dare I even say that? It may be snatched away!
But no, there always is time like this. This White Space, lingering about waiting to be noticed...to be used, appreciated.
At our house, It looks something like this:
(The beginning more resembles black space because that is how I feel when it happens...dark & anxious, frustrated and s-t-r-e-s-s-e-d out.)
Sketch gets home from school in a bad mood. He asks for Veggie Tales, "King George and the Ducky" DVD and so I put it on, thinking it will calm him down.
As soon as it plays he asks for the "Introduction".
There is no official introduction on that DVD.
Sketch says, "All done King George & the Ducky?" so I take the DVD out.
Sketch asks again for King George and I remind him we just had that on and he didn't want it.
He asks again.
I give in, trying to avoid the impending tantrum and tell him this is the LAST time I'm putting it on.
The movie starts. Sketch says "All Done King George? AHHH!"
And it happens. (I suppose it had to happen, if not now then in 5 minutes..he just has to get it out of his system!)
He starts pushing me, throwing toys, trying to attack in any way.
I (eventually) get him in his room where he will calm down (after he pees on the floor, adding another to-do item to my list).
(Now enters White Space). There is nothing I can do at this point. Sketch is throwing his fit and he is safe in his room. History proves he will NOT calm down unless he is alone in his room.
But usually, at this point I will still be stressed out about the whole thing, wondering what is wrong? Why is he acting this way? How long will it last this time? ...What could I do differently? etc.
But worrying steals away the t-i-m-e that has been handed to me to unwind, relax, enjoy.
I could stop myself once Sketch is safe and not be upset any longer.
I could be thankful for the break. Lately when I have calmed down and refused to stew over what's happened, that pocket of time has seemed to slow down. It feels longer than it was. I thank God for it...for the calm, for the space in time.
In some ways, I'm sure the time is actually longer because less is unnecessarily handed over to the black space. But I am sure that those minutes of calm, when noticed...are actually longer.
Have you ever sat and watched a clock tick for a minute? It seems to take forever! But day after day those minutes tick away so fast we don't know what happened to them.
Time slows down (at least our perception of it) when we notice. When we are present in the moment.
Now I know there are those days when it seems like there is no White Space time...when tantrums and crisis come one after the other and there seems to be no end to it. The intensity can be so strong that it seems like the crisis has taken up way more time that it actually did... usually because of what we do with it in ourselves, during and after... the worry, the time sucked up stewing... the drainage of energy leading to less productive time after.
But the truth is that there is White Space coming. It always does, and once we recognize it and are grateful for it's arrival, the time seems long...once noticed, time stalls a bit. Relief. Rest.
Even if the time-pocket of White Space is short... it is there.
Even if it is prematurely interrupted...it was. And, it will be again. We can always look forward to those pockets.
And I wonder, if there really is such a thing as black space. I wonder if that black is really more like a dark purple... a royal color. A color marking that God is there. He promises to turn all things around for good (Romans 8:28). He redeems everything, even what seems so dark, black to us. If God is in it, using it for his purposes, then is it really black at all?